Every so often Kris Jenner is spotted wearing something that definitely came from one of her daughters’ overflowing closets, and it turns out there’s a good reason Jenner is sometimes referred to as the fourth Kardashian sister: her children encourage it.

Proof of such encouragement can be found in this hilariously harsh email from Jenner’s admittedly “favorite” daughter Kim Kardashian, which the 59-year-old posted to Instagram on Friday:

After spending an amazing morning at The Hollywood Reporter Women in Entertainment breakfast, and while I was in my car and hadn’t even gotten home yet, my LOVELY daughter @kimkardashian sent me this delightful email after she apparently saw my picture online…so I wanted to share with you her special holiday cheer. #ithoughtilookedfab #cantdoanythingrightlol

A photo posted by @krisjenner on Dec 12, 2014 at 11:49am PST

For reference, here’s the outfit that just wasn’t up to Kim’s standards:

Kim isn’t the only one to notice her mother’s love of a Peter Pan collar, but no one else will tell you the cold, hard truth like family. And no one besides Kim K will let you know when it’s enough with this “omish shit.”