We all have that one friend who, during a celebratory night out, suddenly becomes fixated on making plans to get brunch the next day. “See you at noon!” he or she screams out of the window of a taxi, as you climb the steps to your fifth-floor walk-up, knowing full well that the only person you’ll be getting up for is the Seamless dude who will deliver mozzarella sticks at 4 p.m.

On Sunday night, at a party for famous people the 2015 Grammy Awards, Taylor Swift was that friend.

As Gawker speculated, and as you can see in the video above, Swift asked Jay Z to brunch. Multiple times. Granted, the video doesn’t have sound and we do not read lips for a living, but around 0:24, you can see the questioning begin. Which turns into a command. Jay Z nods, but we can’t say he looks as enthused as she.

It’s okay, Taylor. Lorde will probably go with you again:

It’s Ella’s 18th birthday technically but we all know she’s really 300 and knows all the secrets of the universe. #ELLAflickerbeat

A photo posted by Taylor Swift (@taylorswift) on Nov 6, 2014 at 9:52pm PST